Wedding_Guide_2016

SPRING 2016

WEDDING PLANNING AN ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO

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THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO WEDDING PLANNING

WELCOME to the first edition of The Essential Guide to Wedding Planning . This guide has brought together information that we hope will be both interesting and of practical use at an exciting time. There is so much to think about, from the dress to the venue, transport, photographer, food, entertainment, invitations and, of course, who to invite. It should be a fun time and with careful planning and preparation shouldn’t be too stressful. This essential guide has a few ideas on unusual ways of getting to the venue, cakes, fashion and advice on what you have to do by law in order to get married. And last but not least a few honeymoon destinations CONTENTS 2 NEWBURY RACECOURSE 4 PIT HALL WASING PARK 5 MILL HOUSE 6 NEWBURY WEDDING SERVICES WATERMILL

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GUIDE & ANNABEL FARLEY

18 INDULGE 19 NEWBURY WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY TJ PHOTOGRAPHY 20-21 HIS ‘N’ HERS FASHION IDEAS CATHERINE BLADES 22-23 THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT EXECUTIVE CARS 24-25 GET ME TO THE CHURCH ON TIME PAST TIME BUSES CELEBRATION CARRIAGES 26-27 LET THEM EAT CAKE KENNET HOUSE CAKES 28-29 MARQUEES FIFI CLOTHES SHOP 30 HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS 31 PINE & OAK 32 DONNINGTON VALLEY

7 TEST VALLEY GOLF 8 BRADFIELD COLLEGE 9 ESSEBORNE MANOR 10 THE LEGAL BITS – WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW 11 DONNINGTON GROVE 12 BEST WESTERN 13 ELCOT PARK OLD MILL HOLIDAY INN 14 HOW TO BUDGET FOR A DREAM WEDDING 15 HARE & HOUNDS UFTON COURT 16 BUTTERCUPS & DAISIES

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LEGAL BITS – WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU can get married or form a civil partnership in the UK if you’re 16 or over, free to marry or form a civil partnership (single, divorced or widowed) or not closely related. Weddings and civil partnership ceremonies VOWS

You must exchange some formal wording if you’re getting married. Discuss any other wording you want in the ceremony with the person conducting it. You don’t need to exchange vows for a civil partnership, but you can do so if you wish. Civil ceremonies can include readings, songs or music, but must not include anything that’s religious, eg hymns or readings from the Bible. You’ll need to have at least two You, your partner and your two witnesses must sign the mar- riage register or civil partnership document. COST OF REGISTERING A MAR- RIAGE OR CIVIL PARTNERSHIP You have to pay a fee to register a UK marriage or civil partner- ship – different fees may apply abroad. This is £46 if you have the cere- mony at a register office, but may be more at other venues. Ask the registrar or religious minister for details. The marriage or civil partnership certificate costs £4 on the day of the event or £10 after. You may need a copy to prove your mari- tal status in the future. VENUES You can have a civil ceremony or civil partnership at a register office, any venue approved by the local council, eg a stately home or hotel, a religious prem- ises where permission has been given by the organisation and the premises approved by the local authority The Home Office has a list of all approved civil marriage and civil partnership venues. www.gov.uk/marriages-civil-part- nerships/overview witnesses at the ceremony. SIGNING THE REGISTER

You need permission from your parents or guardians if you’re under 18 in England, Wales and Northern Ireland. Only same sex couples can form a civil partnership. There are usually two steps to getting married or forming a civil partnership in England and Wales. 1. Give notice at your local register office. 2. Have a religious ceremony or civil ceremony at least 28 days after giving notice. GETTING MARRIED OR FORMING A CIVIL PARTNERSHIP ABROAD Find out about who to contact and which documents you may need to get from the UK authori- ties if you want to get married or form a civil partnership abroad. Your overseas marriage or civil partnership will be recognised in the UK if you follow the correct process according to local law. GIVING NOTICE AT YOUR LOCAL REGISTER OFFICE For most marriages or civil part- nerships you must give at least 28 full days’ notice. You need to include details of where you intend to get married or form a civil partnership. The register office will publicly display your notice for 28 days. You may also need to give notice here if you plan to marry or form a civil partnership abroad. You can only give notice at a reg- ister office if you have lived in the registration district for at least the past seven days. If you’ve been divorced or wid- owed or if you’ve been married or in a civil partnership before, you need to take either a decree absolute or final order, or the death certificate of your former partner

RELIGIOUS CEREMONIES A religious wedding can take place at a church, chapel or other registered religious building. Religious blessing can take place after a civil ceremony in a register office. You can’t get married in an Anglican Church as a same sex couple. You can get married in other reli- gious buildings if the religious organisation allows the marriage of same sex couples to take place and the premises has been registered for the marriage of same sex couples ANGLICAN MARRIAGES You don’t usually need to give notice with the register office if you’re getting married in an Anglican church and both you and your partner are British citizens, from the European Economic Area or Switzerland. Officials performing Anglican marriages will register your marriage. JEWISH AND QUAKER MARRIAGES You need to give notice with the register office at least 28 days before the ceremony. Officials performing Jewish or Quaker marriages will register marriages. You need to give notice with the register office at least 28 days before the ceremony. Authorised officials, including ministers and priests of other religions, can register marriages. MARRIAGES IN ALL OTHER RELIGIONS

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D ON N I N G TON G ROV E H OT E L & C O U N T RY C L U B THE ULT IMAT E WEDDING PACKAGE S

THE EMERALD ALL INCLUSIVE PACKAGE • Arrival drink of red, white or sparkling wine • Set 3 course meal • Glass of sparkling wine with the speeches • Half a bottle of house wine per person • Jugs of iced water • Evening room hire with set finger buffet and resident disco • Complimentary classic double room for the Bride and Groom on the wedding night Minimum of 50 Guests including Bride and Groom (Additional guests charged at £75 per person) s !RRIVAL DRINK OF RED WHITE OR SPARKLING WINE s 3ET COURSE MEAL s 'LASS OF SPARKLING WINE WITH THE SPEECHES s (ALF A BOTTLE OF HOUSE WINE PER PERSON s *UGS OF ICED WATER s %VENING ROOM HIRE WITH SET lNGER BUFFET AND RESIDENT DISCO s #OMPLIMENTARY SUITE FOR THE "RIDE AND 'ROOM ON THE WEDDING NIGHT -INIMUM OF 'UESTS INCLUDING "RIDE AND 'ROOM !DDITIONAL GUESTS CHARGED AT a PER PERSON

THE DIAMOND ALL INCLUSIVE PACKAGE • Arrival drink of Pimms or Champagne • Set 3 course meal • Glass of sparkling wine with the speeches • Half a bottle of house wine per person • A bottle of still and sparkling water on each table • Evening room hire with buffet or BBQ menu and resident disco • Complimentary suite for the Bride and Groom on the wedding night and their first anniversary Minimum of 70 Guests including Bride and Groom (Additional guests charged at £95 per person) £6, 95 s !RRIVAL DRINK OR #HAMPAGNE s 3ET COURSE MEAL s 'LASS OF #HAMPAGNE WITH THE SPEECHES s (ALF A BOTTLE OF HOUSE WINE PER PERSON s ! BOTTLE OF STILL AND SPARKLING WATER ON EACH TABLE s %VENING ROOM HIRE WITH BUFFET OR ""1 MENU AND RESIDENT DISCO s #OMPLIMENTARY SUITE FOR THE "RIDE AND 'ROOM ON THE WEDDING NIGHT AND THEIR lRST ANNIVERSARY -INIMUM OF 'UESTS INCLUDING "RIDE AND 'ROOM !DDITIONAL GUESTS CHARGED AT a PER PERSON

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Steeped in traditional charm with its original oak beams, sluices and water wheel. The Old Mill is a tranquil riverside setting in 20 acres of countryside, making it one of the most picturesque venues in Royal Berkshire. Surrounded by the river Kennet and centrally located between Basingstoke, Reading and Newbury The Old Mill has earned its reputation as a top location, not only being picturesque venue but for its excellent food and service. Privately run for the past 80 years our personal and professional approach will give you unforgettable memories of your special day. One of the most popular and romantic settings in the country for weddings, ceremonies, blessings and receptions. For all enquiries 0118 971 2365 Email: enquiries@theoldmillaldermaston.co.uk www.theoldmillaldermaston.co.uk

Superb 2 AA Rosette 4 Star Merit luxury hotel- the perfect venue to host your wedding celebrations. • Vibrant banqueting suites for up to 200 guests • Licensed rooms for civil ceremonies for up to 240 guests • Value for money wedding packages & room rates • Esprit Spa & Wellness facilities with 19m Pool & Gym • Wedding co-ordinator to help you plan out your big day

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Advertisement feature COUNTRYSIDE COMFORTS CELEBRATE your big day in the Georgian splen- dour of the Elcot Park hotel’s Windsor Reception Room, which makes a grand setting for marriage ceremonies, with a capacity of 150. The Chatsworth & Paxton reception rooms have murals painted by local artist Frankie Cummings. Hotel manager, Mr Josh Watts, describes the venue as: “An exceptional country retreat, the hotel is a splendid Georgian manor house in 16 acres of landscaped gardens within a parkland estate of outstanding natural beauty. “Welcome to the Mercure Newbury Elcot Park Hotel.”

OUR 18TH CENTURY GEORGIAN MANOR HOUSE IS A STUNNING BACK DROP FOR A WEDDING, WITH A SWEEPING DRIVE AND 16 ACRES OF BEAUTIFUL GROUNDS YOU CAN CREATE YOUR PERFECT DREAM WEDDING . To book or for more information on the range of wedding packages available call 0844 815 9060 , email 060cs@jupiterhotels.co.uk or visit www.mercurenewbury.co.uk weddings-in-newbury Dates are available on request. WEDDINGS AT MECURE NEWBURY ELCOT PARK HOTEL

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HOW TO BUDGET FOR A DREAM WEDDING

5. EVERY RELATIONSHIP WILL END EITHER THROUGH SEP- ARATION OR DEATH – PRE- PARE ACCORDINGLY AND GET YOUR WILL SORTED Getting a will may be a bit of an investment now, but it is worth it in the long-term, especially if you have a family. It doesn’t need to be expensive but you should seek legal advice to ensure your wishes will be

THE average cost of a wedding is said to be in excess of £20,000 in the UK. And what’s more, many brides expect to go over budget to get the wedding they want. Here are five top tips about mar- riage and money compiled by independent finance experts: 1. STICK TO YOUR BUDGET, USE A SPREADSHEET AND KEEP IT REAL You just need to pay a few hun- dred pounds to register your marriage and get a certificate. Everything else is up to you. Work out your budget, priori- tise what’s important and find opportunities to cut costs. Don’t be afraid of sale shop- ping or getting a few vintage items. The day and the time of year can also make a difference in venue hire fees. If you’ve got a friend who’s a photographer or a star baker, go ahead and use them. If you buy something at a jeweller, some will even be generous enough to lend you a tiara. 2. FINANCIAL TRANSPARENCY IS THE BEDROCK OF ANY RELATIONSHIP Once you’re married, you become responsible for each other’s financial behaviour. If one of you runs up a debt or misses a payment in a joint account, then you become jointly liable. Make sure you talk to each other, address any elephants in the room and know what you’re getting into. 3. PRE-NUPS AREN’T FOR THE UBER-WEALTHY, THEY CAN BE FOR EVERYONE The reality is that the average

marriage lasts about 11 years in the UK, according to the latest ONS report. Of course, everyone hopes for the best, but it is prudent to be prepared just in case and a pre- nuptial agreement can be a good option for many people. It’s important to remember if you want a pre-nup to be upheld, you need to have it signed at

upheld. If you’re looking to cut costs, in November each year some solici- tors will waive the will-writing fee in return for a small donation to charity. Visit the Will Aid website

to find a participating solicitor near you. 6. SAVINGS Currently for every £100 interest earned, basic rate taxpayers lose £20 in tax, higher rate £40. From 6 April the new personal savings allowance (PSA) means every basic (20 per cent) rate taxpayer can earn £1,000 inter- est without paying tax on it, high- er rate £500. For most people, the new per- sonal savings allowance means tax is now not an issue, so to maximise interest pour your cash where you earn most. Once you know your budget, the aim’s to work out how much you can actually afford to spend on different areas and prioritise what’s important to YOU.

least four weeks before you get married – so make sure you get in touch with a lawyer two- three months in advance. 4. IF YOU’VE GOT CHILDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MAR- RIAGE, OR ARE GETTING RE- MARRIED, IT MAY BE WORTH Large families can be great, but it may make your finances more complicated if you have financial obligations from a previous rela- tionship. For example, if you’re a stepfather and get divorced, it may be worth seeking advice about whether you might still be financially responsible for your step-children. Anybody with concerns may also find the Child Maintenance Service website a useful of guidance. CONSIDERING GETTING PROFESSIONAL ADVICE

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THE BARN at The Hare and Hounds Hotel, has quickly established itself as one of Newbury’s favourite wedding venues since opening in January 2015. Owners Jonathan and Jean set out to build not just a barn-style room, but to realise a dream to have their perfect wedding room. The Barn has an open fireplace, feature window, barn door and so much more to catch the eye. Step outside on to the covered terrace, garden and heated deck and you soon realise the attention to detail that has been put into the project. Personalised menus mean your favourite ingredients for your perfect menu. The Barn caters for parties of 50-80 daytime with 80-100 in the evening. You can come along and check The Barn out any time, or if you want to have a serious tour round and discussion, please do call to make an appointment. Owing to the the popularity of The Barn, they only do 20 weddings a year, and only one in any week. It is already booked for 2016 and 2017 is filling up fast. Pay The Barn a visit, where they look forward to welcoming you and to celebrating your special day. RUSTIC CHARM OF THE BARN Advertisement feature

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REQUEST THE PLEASURE OF THEIR COMPANY DEFINE YOUR WEDDING STYLE The invitation reflects your

about four to five months before the date, so they’re ready to post six to eight weeks before the wedding. Make the deadline to RSVP about three or four weeks after guests receive the invitations. The more time you give them to reply, the more likely they are to forget. CONSIDER COSTS Top-of-the-line papers, color ink, formal printing techniques and custom design will add to your costs. That’s why it's important to research your options. TRIPLE-CHECK THE PROOF You’d be surprised at the things you may miss. Borrow a tip from copy editors and read the proof word for word from right to left so you don’t accidentally gloss over any mistakes. ORDER EXTRA Order enough invitations for your guest list, plus 25 extra in case you want to put some aside as keepsakes or have a B-list.

light backgrounds and dark ink on dark backgrounds. Be wary of hard-to-read fonts like an overly scripted typeface.

wedding style. Browse wedding invitation photos and websites to gather inspiration. KNOW YOUR COLOURS Think about your wedding colours. While ivory, cream or white card stock paired with a black or gold font is the classic choice, you can also brighten your invites with colorful or metallic fonts, paper stock, envelopes and liners. Just keep readability in mind. PLAY WITH THE SHAPE AND SIZE Instead of traditional wedding invitations, look at circular, scal- loped and square ones. However, veering away from the standard envelope size can increase the postage. MAKE SURE THEY’RE LEGIBLE As you consider colours and patterns, don’t forget about the text. In general, avoid light ink on

CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY Learn the rules to wording your invitation. Traditionally, whoever is hosting is listed first. DON’T CROWD THE CARD List only the key points on your invitation: ceremony time and location, the hosts, the couple’s names and RSVP information. Leave things like directions to your wedding venue for your wedding website and/or print them on separate cards. START EARLY Aim to order your invitations

Beautiful, natural, artistic wedding photography by locally based Annabel Farley Photography. Offering a relaxed, unobtrusive approach. Packages from £650. www.annabelfarleyphotography.co.uk or www.facebook.com/annabelfarleyphotography Tel: 07956 211969

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With a reputation for high quality and a local, friendly service, why not have your wedding photographed by Newbury Wedding Photography? Simple, straightforward packages, or choose your own coverage Reasonable prices - professional, friendly and unobtrusive service Choose from disc-only or wedding album options

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HIS ‘N’ HERS - SOME FASHION IDEAS FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM

Listen to your heart A wedding-dress maker or bridal specialist in a shop hones in on what the bride wants. Your sister, mum or aunty might have different ideas but it’s your day and it’s about what you want. First question for the groom: formal or casual? It is essential to discuss with your bride whether or not you are having a more formal wed- ding or a more casual wedding? Because this is how you could loosely bundle up the options for the groom. Formal options include: Morning suit: A traditional choice consisting of a tailcoat, waistcoat, and striped

THE experience of shopping for a wedding gown can be stressful and highly emo- tional. This is the most important dress of your life, so here are some helpful hints. Don't build the wedding around the dress Is it a country church wed- ding with 50 guests? Or a more largescale affair in the heart of the city? Start with the

trousers. Morning suits should only be worn for noon or early-afternoon weddings. Tuxedo: Classic black tie evening wear, complete with satin-striped trousers and bow

kind of wedding it will be and work backwards to the dress. Less is more with accessories The dress will determine what to do with your hair and how much jewellery you need. Large earrings can dominate, and a hairstyle can be subtly improved with delicate adorn- ments. Be careful of necklines and be mindful of how small, well-made jewellery can have a better effect. Find out which designers do bridal really well A wedding dress is the one occa- sion most women get to experi- ence made-to-measure dress- making, and for that reason a ready-to-wear designer may have the kind of expertise needed. Be realistic about what you can afford If you have a small budget then you can’t expect a top designer dress, unless of course, you get lucky on eBay or the charity shops. Auctions are another good place, especially for vin- tage or retro dresses. But there are many off high-quality off-the- rail dresses, which with slight alterations become personal to you. A good bridal

shop is the best start- ing point. Get fittings as close to the wed- ding as possible A made-to-measure dress has to be ordered four to five months in advance, so you need to allow that time. Don't try it on too much because you will probably lose weight before the wedding, so it's best not to start fittings until you are the size you want to be.

tie. Should be worn to evening weddings only. Avoid coloured dicky bows and cummerbunds. White Tie and tails: The evening equivalent of the morning suit, white tie and tails is an extremely elegant choice for a formal evening wedding. Are you even a suit and tie man? Over the last few years the com- bination of tighter budgets, more

informal workwear and an increasing interest in menswear and fashion, has meant that grooms’ taste when choosing a wedding suit has changed significantly. For many grooms now preparing to get mar- ried, the formal look has been replaced by a more informal, laid back look.

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Casual Suit/Jacket: A linen or cotton suit makes a casual and very comfortable wedding outfit for the summer groom; in

groom, but, with the unpredictable weather, really only suitable for a summer wedding. Probably best to buy a jacket to fall back on just in case.

Modern day suit: Simple, elegant, preferably slim-fit two-piece suit and easily accessorised with a fun colourful tie to coordinate with the bridal party.

Slim cut three-piece suit: This is a fun alternative for a man who wants a touch of formality and yet look modern and fresh. Smart choice of cufflinks and tie are essential, while a pocket watch would add a retro/vintage feel. Waistcoat and bowtie/tie: Relaxed and informal look for a

Or Are You Mr. Fashion Forward? If you’re a complete maverick and have your own very individ- ual style you could go wild and have as much fun as the bride fashion-wise. Think colour, personality and individual accessories.

winter a wool jacket and trousers. Either can be accessorised with a great bow-tie to make a groom stand out in a fun and relaxed way.

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THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT

MAGICIANS Let's be honest, who doesn't love a magician? Easy to organise and with plenty of bang for their buck, ask your magician to do the rounds mid-meal to entertain A more quirky idea is to hire faux-paparazzi to show up at your wedding. Providing laughs and photographic gems for your wedding album, what's not to love? PALM READER Add a touch of the supernatural to your reception, and put Mystic Meg’s name on your guest list. Organising a palm reader to wander round the tables mid-course is a great way to fill a sometimes-awkward gap. your diners. PAPARAZZI

Or maybe reptiles is your thing – snakes and crocs mingling with the guests could make for some interesting photos. DANCE OFF There comes a time when things can only be solved with a good old-fashioned dance off. You know the rules: men on one side, ladies on the other, and anything goes. Let the DJ decide the prizes for best and worst moves. PHOTO SCAVENGER HUNT Not just one for the children, create a photo scavenger

hunt for your guests to complete throughout the

course of the day. From snap- ping a picture of planting a kiss on the groom’s cheek to selfies

Learning a secret dance routine with your partner to perform at your recep- tion will affirm your eternal places in the wedding hall of fame. CARICATURES Give your guests a seriously personalised favour in the form of a caricature. Even better, the doodle of you and your new hubby can claim a place on your kitchen wall. Or you can

hire a silhouette artist to create portraits of you and your guests during the celebrations. MRS AND MRS CONTEST How well do you really know your groom? From the easy ones like shoe size and how he likes his tea to the trickier topics of first pet and A-level subjects – you might even learn something new. Rope in your best man to host

with the catering staff, it’ll bring out the com- petitive nature in your friends.

FLASH MOBS There’s no better way to make your friends and families' jaws hit the floor. From cabaret dancers to a band of animals, the wilder the better. PETTING ZOO In the world of unusual wedding entertainment, anything is possi- ble. If you're getting hitched on a country farm, head outside with little guests to visit the venue’s resident animals. Mobile petting zoos are even available, so you can bring the farmyard to you.

SURPRISE FIRST DANCE

We've all seen the YouTube videos.

the quiz, but keep it short.

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RSVP A FLOORFILLER Simple but oh-so-effective, ask guests to jot down their must- have party song on their RSVP note, and hey presto, a ready- made playlist is yours. CELEBRITY IMPERSONATOR If David Beckham didn’t respond to your invita- tion, there is another way to have

VODKA LUGE Strictly for the adults, an ice vodka luge will certainly spice up your night. If you want to

burger or fish ‘n’ chips van for when you’re the other side of midnight will go down a treat. CHOCOLATE FOUNTAIN Gushing chocolate and fruity and marshmallow dips – what’s not to like? PHOTO BOOTH

Silly hats and wigs and a host of other disguises, everyone from granny to the over-excited young- sters can get in on the act. And they definitely create a display for the album.

a star-studded wedding: hire a lookalike. Great photo opportunities. SERENADING BAND

The best types of serenad- ing bands are the ones who make up songs on the spot. Give them a couple of facts, and they’ll make up a song within seconds. SINGING WAITERS A fun way to liven up your dinner and, to make sure you get a reaction, keep it a secret from your guests until they suddenly burst into song.

AFTER PARTY If heading home at midnight

is just too early, or your bridal party just love a good night out, arrange an after party. Book a minibus to transport your most hardcore guests to a bar or club – book a VIP area if you're feeling extra generous. Whatever you do, have fun.

really go all-out, stock up on flavoured spirits that reflect your theme or colour scheme. TAKEAWAY VAN As the party gets into full swing there is no more welcome a sight than a takeaway van. Hiring a

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GET ME TO THE CHURCH ON TIME... IF you want to make an entrance at your wedding, that guests will remember, there are plenty of options available.

Here are just a few ideas, from the eco-friendly and economic good old walking to the top-of- the-scale arrival by helicopter. BIKE Vintage brides will love a vintage bicycle for this big day – they make a fun prop for your wed- ding photos or you could actually ride one to the venue. Just make sure the journey’s not uphill. WALK This is the ultimate eco-friendly way to arrive at your ceremony. If you live close to the venue, or there’s a picturesque approach, why not make the most of it and walk there with your dad and bridesmaids? BUS If he needs to calm his nerves, then his best friends can all hop on, making the journey more comfortable – and exciting – and heralding his arrival with his entourage. And after the service if you need to get to the reception venue, you can all travel together and chat about how incredible the ceremony was. TRACTOR If you’re a country-loving couple, why not ask the local farmer if you borrow one of his tractors? It’s a fun photo opportunity – you could even get some wedding wellies to complete the look. However, you’ll need to allow extra time for arrival, going at tractor speed. HORSE AND CARRIAGE If you’ve dreamed of being a princess on your big day, then it has to be horse and carriage. One word of warning – make sure you hire one with a hood, just in case of bad weather. This one is a great wedding transportation idea for the groom.

HELICOPTER To make a Made in Chelsea -style arrival, a helicopter has to be the most impressive way to make your entrance. This idea might be more suited to the wouldbe-007 grooms as most wedding dresses aren’t easily accommodated in the cockpit.

TUK TUK Perfect for an oriental-themed wedding, a Tuk Tuk is essentially a motorised rickshaw. It’s highly-maneuverable, making it the ideal wedding transporta- tion choice if access to the venue is tight. They’re unique, quirky and will certainly help make your wed- ding stand out from the crowd. ELEPHANT If you’re tying the knot abroad, why not go the ‘whole wedding transportation hog’ and arrive at your beach ceremony riding an elephant. Not really much to add to that idea. STAY THE NIGHT BEFORE One of the quickest ways to arrive at your ceremony, if it is a civil service, is to stay at the wedding venue the night before. All-inclusive packages may include this option, leaving you and your bridesmaids to wake up slowly and get ready in your own time, without the added stress of traffic jams. Whatever form of transport you decide on, make sure it is com- fortable for you and fits in with the style of the rest of the wed- ding. And don’t forget to make allowances for time, the weather and look out for planned road- works or traffic hold-ups.

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THERE ARE ALL SORTS OF WAYS TO MAKE AN ENTRANCE

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HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT THE main focus of most wedding receptions is the wedding cake. Your wedding cake will feature in a lot of wedding photographs, which you will have to look at for

Design – go through the cake sample pictures from different confectioners and bakers. Look through wedding magazines and the internet for inspiration. If you do not find something that you like, you can always design your own cake. Flavour – There are so many flavours to choose from, but you want to be sure it tastes good or you’ll have a load of cake left over. If you can’t make up your mind, then have each tier in a different flavour. Tips for wedding cake display Wedding cakes are usually dis- played right from the start of the wedding reception and cut towards the end. Depending on how long you expect the reception to last, the wedding cake could be on dis- play for a considerable length of time. To ensure that the cake holds up for the duration, make sure that the filling used in the cake, if you’re not going for the tradi- tional fruit cake, will not cause it to go bad. Display the cake in a prominent location but not in the way. The wedding cake should be visible to your guests but not placed where they may accidentally knock it off. Remember to add some spe- cial lighting for your wedding cake. A spotlight to focus spe- cially on the cake is a great way to make the wedding cake display look smashing. Never display your wedding cake close to the dance floor. Over-enthusiastic guests just may cause a mishap. The size of the table for the wedding cake should be according to the size of the cake – neither too big nor too small. Cover it with a beautiful table cloth, and you can then use flowers, garlands, and sprays to decorate it.

which vary in design, look and taste. You can get a wedding cake customised to your own unique design and have just about any design under the sun. When you are ready to start look- ing for the perfect wedding cake, these are the factors you should to take into consideration: Size of the Cake – this will depend on the number of guests that you are expecting. If you are planning to save some cake for guests who are unable to attend, then you should keep this in mind while determining the exact number of people.

years to come, and not many people leave the reception before the cake is cut. So, you should take some time to choose the perfect wedding cake. Traditionally, wedding cakes used to be three-tiered, and were covered with royal icing. Nowadays, there are hundreds of cakes that you can choose from, GET THE CAKE YOU WANT You may have a relative who is keen to make the cake but if you’re hiring a professional cakemaker, here’s a few questions to ask: Can I have a tasting? – It’s handy to be able to sample their handiwork to make sure it tastes as good as it looks. Do you custom-make cakes? – Your wedding cake maker might have a portfolio of tried and tested cakes, but if you want something unique it’s best to check if they make bespoke wedding cakes. Can I see your portfolio? – Ask to see a portfolio. The more vari- ety they have shows their range of experience and creativity. Will you deliver my wedding cake and set it up? – It’s impor- tant to establish with your cake maker who will deliver the wed- ding cake. You should also find out if they’ll set up the cake at your venue or if that’s down to you. Are there any additional charges? – Find out if they want deposits for wedding cake stands, pillars or cake toppers. If they come with your cake, they will want them back and in the same condition you received them in. Alternatively you can provide your own, but check with the baker if you need to bring them

in or if they can all just be set up at the venue. Once you’ve decided on your wedding cake maker, make sure you have everything you discussed written down and confirmed by them.

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Dare to be different Instead of icing the cake, show off the sponge and decorate with berries and seasonal fruit.

movie and have it iced onto your wedding cake. Go for different shapes such as a hexagonal- or petal-shaped

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If you love chocolate, go for it. Choose creamy chocolate buttercream, smooth ganache or opt for fondant or chocolate marzipan. Place small cakes at each table so everyone can have a go at cutting it. Go for a variety of flavours, so people can wander round and try different cakes. Why not pick a quote from your favorite book, poem or

Display a large table of mini- cakes, or cupcakes, stacked to look like one big cake, and then invite guests to help them- selves. How about a cheese cake? No, not a sweet creamy variety, although that is a thought. But rounds of cheese, decorated

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MARQUEES TO SUIT ALL SIZES AND STYLES OF WEDDING YOU may want to hire a

marquee for your wedding. Here are the main types to choose from: A TRADITIONAL CANVAS MARQUEE Traditional marquees are erected on poles, with guy ropes and tent pegs to keep them upright and secured to the ground. It is the perfect choice for summer as guests can socialise both inside and out. They are best suited for smaller wedding venues such as your own garden. The sides can be removed in good weather, but they are not very wind and waterproof if the weather is not so good. A TEPEE-STYLE MARQUEE Tepees are built on a tripod arrangement of poles, with interior guy ropes and exposed beams.

They work well for seaside wed- dings or a casual summer bar- beque. Small Cowboy and Indian-style tepees can provide extra shelter if you are holding your drinks reception outdoors, or, for a com-

plete outdoor wedding, hire Kata marquees which can be joined together to form a tent village. A BEDOUIN OR INDIAN TENT The interior decor is exotic and opulent, with rich colours and

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beautiful Moroccan or Indian fabrics draped across the ceiling and the walls. They can be used for any out- door wedding where you want to achieve a different look from the traditional marquee, or for winter weddings where you want a warm and cosy atmosphere. Because the interior can be quite dark, they are usually best-suited for an evening wedding. Furniture in a Bedouin or Indian tent tends to be quite low, includ- ing cushions on the floor for guests to recline and low tables on which the food is served. A FRAMED MARQUEE A framed marquee is the most expensive choice and is best for large formal weddings, especial- ly winter ones, when there is more chance of rain, or midsum- mer when you want to keep your guests cool. This type of marquee is usually roomy enough to divide off various parts using extra walls, making a bar area, a dining area and a dance floor.

The pros and cons of hiring a marquee for your wedding

CONS Your hire list could include tableware, a dance floor, tables and chairs, lighting, a power supply, a stage, a sound system and guest toilets. Marquees aren’t soundproof so you may risk aggravating your neighbours. You will most likely have to finish the celebra- tions at a certain time out of respect for your neighbourhood. You can have a marquee reception in summer or winter, but you will need extras such as air conditioning, heating or floor- ing to ensure your guests are comfortable. It is a seasonal venue and is best suited for summer. Staff clear up the mess at a wedding venue, but if you have a marquee in the garden, it’s very likely that you will have to do at least some of the tidying and cleaning.

PROS You can hire a marquee based on the ideal number of guests you want to invite instead of having to limit your guest list to fit in with your venue. You won’t be restricted by the existing decor or style of your wedding venue. You will have a blank canvas for your wedding theme and decorations. Assuming you are using your own garden and don’t have to hire a garden or park, it should work out cheaper than reception venue hire. You should be able to save money on food and alcohol too as you won’t have to use the services of a catering company provided by a venue. A marquee is flexible – for example you can take off the sides if the weather is dry and sunny. You can also section off the dance floor. It’s not difficult to change the layout of a mar- quee, you can simply add screens or curtains.

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HOLIDAY OF A LIFETIME – HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS

PUNTA DEL ESTE, URUGUAY The once-sleepy fishing village is now the St. Tropez of South America. Take a trip to nearby José Ignacio for a laid- back, boho beach scene. Or hop on a daily boat tour to visit Isla de Lobos’s colony of sea lions. MARRAKESH, MOROCCO You'll feel like you wandered onto a movie set com- plete with snake charmers, belly dancers, horse- drawn carriage rides and an

ALL the planning and preparation for the big day has paid off and you have had a wonderful wedding. Now it’s time to relax and enjoy your honeymoon, whether you’re heading for a far-flung exotic location or somewhere closer to home. BALI, INDONESIA Nicknamed the Isle of the Gods, Bali has long

been a haven for romance-seekers with its mist- shrouded temples, beautiful mountain vistas and vivid arts scene. Arrange a trip to Pura Luhur Uluwatu temple. Located atop a cliff rising 200 feet above the Indian Ocean, it has one of the most unforgettable sunset views in the world. Then, stay for the mesmerising nightly kecak If you just want peace and quiet in beautiful surroundings, then Orkney with its green-topped islands and sandstone cliffs will give you just that. Take a day trip to the Neolithic Ring of Brodgar, an ancient and eerie ring of standing stones, northeast of Stromness. With the weather moving in and the water lapping at the shore, it makes for a supernatural sight. VENICE, ITALY Nothing says amore quite like a gondola ride through the Grand Canal as you sail past historic buildings. Take a romantic, leisurely stroll around St Mark’s Square, wander over the Rialto and marvel at the dance performance. ORKNEY, SCOTLAND

Bridge of Sighs. Then, escape the sights and sounds of the city with a boat ride to one of the unspoiled islands nearby. HARBOUR ISLAND, BAHAMAS A pink-sand paradise, Harbour Island is a magnet for celebrities. Visit Pink Sands Beach and settle in among the three-mile stretch of sand and turquoise waters. Above the beach, join the jet-set for an open-air lunch at Sip Sip. FIJI The islands that make up Fiji are surrounded by coral reefs result- ing in warm lagoons and beauti- ful coral beaches. Stroll along quiet nature trails that lead to spectacular views of the Mamanuca Islands. MAUI, HAWAII Hawaii’s clear waters, tropical sunsets and lush greenery make this a perfect romantic getaway. Watch the sunrise while wrapped in a blanket at the top of Haleakala Crater, or gaze at the sunset as you cruise along the Kihei coastline. Instant romance.

extensive maze of markets. Visit Yves Saint Laurent’s former home and gardens and stop by the Galerie Love—a collection of all of the designer’s collage posters with the word “love" scrawled on each one. ICELAND Largely uninhabited, Iceland changes scenery every few min- utes. You can go from volcanic, lunar-looking landscapes or grassy, green Middle Earth to shattering waterfalls and soaring geysers or massive Blue Lagoon hot springs. Head over to the picturesque Snaefellsjökull National Park to see some of nature’s most beau- tiful creations, including two mas- sive lava formations and a dreamy hidden waterfall. Then stop by the Blue Lagoon and dip in and out of the various pools and hot springs. Whether you want to relax, party, see the sights or have a bit of an adventure, the world is your oyster – enjoy.

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